7 Reasons Why You Should Write Love Letters

It may seem old fashioned or obsolete in the eyes of younger generations, but a hand written love letter will impress anyone who receives it. In an age where we are surrounded by screens and social media, a love letter is an unexpected gift that will be remembered for years to come (and re-remembered if it's tucked away for decades).

Letting your heart pour onto paper for a loved one shows them how deeply you care about them, why they mean so much to you, and that you cherish their company. A personal expression in written form, a love letter may be a dying art, but it's one that should be resurrected. Here are 7 reasons why you should start writing love letters:

Love Letters Express Strong Emotions 

We can't always find the right words to express how we feel for someone when we're with them, but when we write a love letter we can slow down and concentrate on our deepest feelings for them. We can fine-tune our sentiments to mean exactly what we want without worrying we may say the wrong thing or stumble over our words when our heart skips a beat.

You don't need to be the most poetic romanticist to write a love letter. Jot down how you feel, put your emotions in check, and explain why you feel what you feel. Your words can be as strong as you'd like, so take care to choose them wisely. 

Love Letters Can Be Cherished For Years To Come 

Love notes should never be thrown away. They're one of those sentimental gifts that keep giving every time you read them, a constant reminder of your love and affection for that special someone. While we live in a digital age where we mostly communicate via text, video, and emails, a physical love letter will never accidentally get deleted or buried in someone's inbox.

If you are the recipient of a love letter, keep them in a special place. It's always nice to have a keepsake box of all the gifts your lover has given you. A shoebox or spot in a drawer could be the perfect spot to store all the sentimental gifts you receive.

When you're feeling down or having a rough day, read a couple of the letters to remind yourself how much you mean to someone. It will instantly brighten your day.

Love Letters Strengthen Your Relationship 

Some say that the best way to show someone how much you love them is through your actions; however, words can be just as powerful. You show your vulnerable side, wearing your heart on your sleeve when you write a love letter.

A thoughtful expression of your feelings will help bring you closer to your lover. It has a stronger, deeper meaning than a text that's void of any personal touch. A considerate and reflective letter requires more time to read and digest. 

Love Letters Can't Be Bought

A handwritten love letter straight from the heart will always convey more emotion than the typical Hallmark cards that colour the greeting card aisle at the local drugstore or supermarket, a sea of red and pink each February. Your gift to them is truly one of a kind, never sold anywhere else, exclusively for their eyes.

While some may believe that extravagant, expensive gifts show more love, a romantic gentleman knows that true emotions will always be priceless. 

Love Letters Are A Lost Art That's Sure To Impress 

Love letters are becoming a lost art in today's society. While you may hear about the odd love letter from someone now and again, they aren't nearly as popular as they once were. Show your admiration to someone with this uncommon medium and it will surely stand out.

Not only is it thoughtful, but it'll be most likely one of the first love letters, if not the first, they've received. 

Writing Love Letters Is Therapeutic 

When you write a love letter for that special someone, you are highlighting all the positive things you admire about them. Not only does it emphasize the emotions you feel, but you may be flooded with affection.

Mentally, this releases dopamine and serotonin, the feel-good chemicals. Writing positive things reduces stress, making you feel happier. 

Love Letters Are A Fantastic Surprise For Your Lover 

Love letters don't have to be reserved for Valentine's day or for special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries. A small note, even a couple lines on a post-it note, will brighten someone's day.

If you live with your significant other, leaving a love letter for them to read while you're away will be an instant mood booster, not only for them but also for you when they express their gratitude. 

 Tips For Writing A Love Letter:

• Don't get overly mushy. If you aren't sure where to start, two to four paragraphs is the sweet spot. Perhaps include one paragraph to explain why you are writing the letter, one for expressing your feelings, one for mentioning past romantic memories, and one for expressing excitement for the future. (If you have a date coming up, be sure to mention it.)

• Write a first draft and revise. Read and re-read it to ensure you are conveying the right message.

• If you have some on hand, writing the final message on thicker paper will make it feel more sentimental. If you have poor penmanship, take your time. You may choose to type and printing a love letter, but be aware that a handwritten note carries a far more personal touch.

• Always put the date on your letters, mention your lover by first name, and end with your name.

• Don't focus on what anyone else may think or say. They aren't the ones reading it. It's between you and your lover, so let those emotions flow freely.

Bonus Romantic Tips: 

For an added touch of surprise, consider mailing the love letter to your sweetheart. It'll be a nice treat for them when they go through their mail.

You could also spray the letter with a cologne your sweetheart likes, or even your signature scent. Not sure what your signature scent is? our guide How To Find Your Signature Scent will help you discover it.

Summary

While some may sigh and roll their eyes at the thought of a love letter, there are plenty of people who would love to receive a love letter from their sweetheart. The recipient doesn't have to be your significant other either—a note of appreciation to a family member or a close friend will make them feel loved as well.  

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